Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Woman vs. Woman

I was very interested, and somewhat shocked, when reading Gwendolyn Mink's article "The Lady and the Tramp." Since the early weeks of the semester, we talked about on a few occasions how women can be pitted against one another, and how women themselves can impede pro-female activism. This has always been something which is perturbing! Just as the womens movement was, for some time, a separate movement from the racial civil rights movement, it seems that factions among women have also shared a history of fighting against one another as opposed to working together as a strong united force.

When thinking about groups of people, socioeconomic statuses seem to be a major rift. This divide effects not only relations between different races, cultures, ethnicities, regions, etc., but it also effects relations amongst women. It is crucial to notice that not only men are putting down/subjugating women, in this case, poor women. Women, too, take part in this domination. For so many women to be opposed to welfare reform is in essence a fight which pits rich woman against poor woman. It is unfair and upsetting to realize that women can treat each other in such a detrimental way.

It is also unfortunate that this is the case because when all women are united the possibilities for advancement could seem endless!! But by continuously having varying, and sometimes contradictory, factions among the members of female society, it seems that achieving such widespread goals is an unlikely fantasy.

I think (and hope!) that if more women look at this problem like Mink and Eang then women can realize how their refusal to help women of a lower socioeconomic status can be disasterous to the entire female movement! I think we will have to continuously strive to obtain this social change, but i also have faith that if we do, the result of a united women's force will be able to garner much respect and be able to achieve great things!

1 comment:

  1. I agree with Hillary that this really relates to Susan Douglas. We constantly pit women against women whether it's judging Snooki while watching "Jersey Shore" or calling a girl at a party a slut. If we could all join together, the possibilities truly would be endless. It would be difficult to ignore half the population demanding equality. I think this even relates to the article in "Leading the Way" about the woman newly entering the corporate world. By her superior coming back early from maternity leave, she sets a new standard for all other women to live to. If we could all reach some consensus and agree that mothering is hard, and something many women have in common, we might be able to help each other. As housework used to be something all women held in common, motherhood could be that as well. We should all help each other handle the difficult and demanding task and not judge one another based on the conditions we are trying to mother in.

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